People who feel guilty about not
I believe that people who write "I don't X because of reason P" on social media are often just second-guessing and second-guessing their "I don't X", so if you deny "reason P", they will just say "I don't X because of reason Q".
The phrase "should X" might make you overreact because it seems like an attack to someone who thinks "not X" is backward.
relevance
Looking for reasons not to
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